It's Not You! Archives - Tess Counselling

Relationship Creep - what made it change? What's happened to us? Could it be Adult ADHD? The loss of intimacy, far too many fights and arguments, walking on eggshells afraid to raise an issue, carrying too much of the responsibility load. Just feeling so confused and lost.

HELP … my partner was unfaithful – What do I do?

What’s happened to us? Where did it go wrong? Is this relationship creep … the loss of intimacy, too many fights and…

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A woman with bruises has a man's hand over her mouth.

How to recognise emotionally abusive behaviour … PART B.

…. and what to do about it. STEP 1: If you suspect you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, dynamic or situation…

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