What is Somatic Therapy and How It Can Transform Relationships

Navigating the complexities of relationships can be challenging, especially when past traumas or attachment wounds...

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What is Trauma-Informed Relationship Therapy?

Relationships are the cornerstone of our emotional well-being, yet they can also be the source...

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Abusive Love is not Love ... it is ABUSE! Not all relationships can improve with therapy.

Can counselling truly help every relationship?

What about toxic, manipulative, emotionally abusive, covert controlling, narcissistic relationships? The short answer is NO...

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Handling life … with the help of good therapy.

A deeply personal reflection … it’s only fair I be vulnerable, if I am inviting...

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Desperate to be loved?

There are so many other titles, that would sit just as comfortably with this blog...

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Relationship Creep - what made it change? What's happened to us? Could it be Adult ADHD? The loss of intimacy, far too many fights and arguments, walking on eggshells afraid to raise an issue, carrying too much of the responsibility load. Just feeling so confused and lost.

HELP … my partner was unfaithful – What do I do?

What’s happened to us? Where did it go wrong? Is this relationship creep … the...

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The one mistake we all inevitably make in relationships.

We turn our feelings into facts! This is the biggest mistake that we make in our...

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How to recognise emotionally abusive behaviour … PART B.

 ….  and what to do about it. STEP 1: If you suspect you are in...

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How to recognise emotionally abusive behaviour … PART A.

… both the charming and the ugly.  Emotional abuse most often occurs covertly and usually...

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We all stuff up … and we all need to know how to make up!

We’re all human.  We all make mistakes.  And we all need to learn how to...

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Choose kindness …

Want to try an experiment, that I promise will change how you feel … for...

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Childhood Emotional Neglect – PART 3

This is PART 3 of Childhood Emotional Neglect – How does it impact adult relationships?...

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