Trauma counselling Melbourne – healing past trauma with specialist trauma-informed therapy

Trauma Counselling Melbourne

Healing the Past, Empowering Your Future

The experiences we carry—and those we have overcome—define our path forward.

Trauma is not just an event that happened in the past; it is a footprint left in the nervous system that shapes how we see the world, our relationships, and ourselves. Seeking Trauma Counselling in Melbourne is a courageous step toward reclaiming your sense of safety, agency, and peace.

Understanding the

Impact of Trauma

Whether you are dealing with a single distressing event or the long-term effects of complex developmental trauma, the impact is real and deeply felt. It can manifest as anxiety, hypervigilance, emotional numbness, or a feeling of being “stuck.” Through specialised Trauma Informed Counselling, we work together to untangle these responses and move toward a state of post-traumatic growth.

Online FREE

FREE Introductory Call – 15 min?

Got a few questions?

Thinking about Trauma Counselling but feeling nervous to begin? Let’s chat and explore your options in a safe space.

Online $300/hour (Inc GST)

Trauma Informed Relationship Counselling – 90 min

Healing the Past, Empowering the Future

Taking the step toward Trauma Counselling is an act of self-care and growth. Receive compassionate support from the comfort and privacy of your own home as we work together to untangle the impact of trauma on your relationships and life.

Face to Face $300/hour (+Inc GST)

Trauma Informed Relationship Counselling – 90 min

Reclaim Your Peace and Connection

Prefer in-person support? Let’s meet in the comfort and privacy of my rooms to begin your healing journey in relationships and life.

(If suitable times aren’t available in your area, book a FREE 15-minute Introductory Online Call to discuss your needs.)

Trauma-informed counselling Melbourne for childhood trauma, PTSD and relational trauma

A Safe Haven:

Trauma Informed Counselling in Melbourne

I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space for individuals and couples. My approach to Trauma Counselling in Melbourne is built on the foundation of emotional safety. I help you navigate:

  • Childhood & Developmental Trauma: Healing the wounds of the past to create a healthier present.
  • Relational Trauma: Addressing the impact of betrayal, domestic violence, or toxic relationship cycles.
  • Transgenerational Trauma: Breaking the cycle of inherited pain to foster new family dynamics.
  • Medical or Situational Trauma: Processing the aftermath of illness, accidents, or sudden loss.
  • PTSD & Complex PTSD (cPTSD): Managing the triggers and flashbacks that disrupt your daily life.
Trauma informed coaching Melbourne using eft² tapping for nervous system regulation and healing

Tapping into Resilience

The eft² Approach

In my Melbourne Trauma Counselling practice, I utilise a specialised trauma-informed framework: Tapping into Relationships – eft². This method is particularly effective for trauma as it addresses both the mind and the body.

Traditional “talk therapy” can sometimes be re-traumatising by forcing you to relive memories. My approach focuses on:

  • Nervous System Regulation: Using Tapping (EFT) to calm the “fight or flight” or “freeze” responses in real-time.
  • Emotional Safety: Using neuroscientifically validated techniques to safely process trauma memories.
  • Integration: Helping your brain and body understand that the danger is over, allowing you to live fully in the “here and now.”
Specialist trauma counselling Melbourne empowering clients with evidence-based trauma-informed care

Why Choose

Specialised Trauma Counselling in Melbourne?

You don’t have to simply “get over it”—healing doesn’t work that way. Trauma reshapes the brain’s wiring, and true recovery requires the care and understanding of Trauma-Informed Counselling. Together, we’ll gently guide you from a state of survival—where the past feels ever-present—to a place of thriving, where you feel empowered to create a fulfilling life and build healthier, more meaningful connections.

Take the

First Step Toward Recovery

Healing is possible, and you don’t have to walk this path alone. Let’s work together to restore your sense of self and your connection to the world.

Book a Trauma-Informed Consultation Today

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I cannot speak highly enough of Tess- her warmth, care and compassion, her intelligence and knowledge that she brings to every session are truly incredible. She draws on a wealth of experience and deep understanding. Tess has guided me through some very challenging times in my life, always with kindness, a non-judgemental attitude, curiosity and showing me how to act with compassion and love towards myself. I am very grateful for the journey that we have been on together and the deep work that we continue to do collaboratively. It has made such a difference to my life, to my interpersonal relationships and my relationship with myself. Her great sense of humour and reflections are a wonderful antidote. Thank you so much Tess!
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My partner and I began seeing Tess for 'preventative' therapy when we started dating 2 years ago, and she has helped us to build an incredible foundation for our life together. Tess is compassionate and insightful, and we come out of every session with new insights that help us understand each other, and ourselves, better - even when we think we've analysed the problem from every angle, Tess surprises us with an insight that unlocks repair and healing. Tess has also taught us the power of tapping for self-regulation, and this has helped us de-escalate many situations before they escalate. Thank you so much Tess for being with us through our issues big and small!
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A Wonderful experience- Looking forward to more Sessions I’ve had two sessions with Tess so far, and I’m genuinely excited to see where this journey takes me. My daughter recommended Tess after experiencing many sessions with her, and I can see why she speaks so highly of her. Tess has a reputation for being incredibly kind and effective, and she truly lives up to it. From the very beginning, Tess made me feel comfortable and heard. She has a unique ability to connect and get to the heart of what’s important to me, which felt almost intuitive. It’s like she has a sixth sense for understanding how I feel and what I need. Her approach is a beautiful balance of compassion, expertise and experience kind, she’s non-judgmental in a way that allows me to be completely open without fear of criticism. Her knowledge is vast, and it’s clear that she has a wealth of experience to draw from. But what stands out most is her ability to tailor her techniques to fit my personal situation. I feel like I’m in very capable hands, and I can already sense the positive shifts after just a couple of sessions. I’m looking forward to continuing my work with Tess and seeing where the process leads. If you’re looking for someone who combines warmth with expertise, Tess is definitely someone you should consider.
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I’m deeply grateful for the support and healing Tess has facilitated in me. Through our work together, I’ve experienced profound growth in both my interpersonal relationships and the relationship I have with myself. My emotional regulation and communication with loved ones have improved significantly, and I feel more grounded and connected than ever. Tess has a remarkable ability to guide me to the deeper issues beneath the surface while ensuring I never feel too raw or exposed in the process. Her approach is both gentle and effective, creating a space that feels safe, compassionate, and transformative. I’ve recommended Tess to friends and family who have also experienced meaningful healing under her guidance. I can’t recommend her highly enough.
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Tess helped me heal and cope after being in an abusive marriage. I highly recommend her. She was understanding and guided me with achievable coping strategies that greatly improved mental health and helped balance my nervous system.
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Wow, where to start! I feel like I owe Tess so much; not only has she helped me see and deal with the toxicity that had surrounded me for so long, she has also helped me understand and embrace my true self. Tess’s gentle guidance, wisdom and empathy are a gift for anyone that needs help navigating relationships that don’t feel right. I can’t express how much Tess has helped me and can only recommend that you consider her for your counselling!
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Tess clearly identified issues within my relationship immediately and more accurately than any other therapist had done before. She always works with kindness and offers a wholistic follow up and care.

FAQs

Trauma-Informed Counselling recognises the deep impact trauma has on your brain, body, and emotions. Instead of focusing on “what’s wrong,” this approach safely and gently processes “what you’ve been through.” It prioritises your physical and emotional safety, creating a supportive space where healing can happen without overwhelming your nervous system

If you find yourself constantly “on edge,” struggling with intrusive thoughts, feeling disconnected from others, or repeating self-sabotaging patterns in relationships, you may be experiencing the effects of trauma. Trauma Counselling in Melbourne can help you identify these symptoms and provide the tools to regulate your emotions and reclaim control over your life.

Yes. Childhood trauma often creates “blueprints” for how we relate to others as adults. The Tapping into Relationships – eft² protocol is specifically designed to address these deep-seated attachment wounds. By combining emotional processing with somatic (body-based) therapies, we can soothe the “inner child” and update those old blueprints for a healthier adult life.

Absolutely not! In Trauma Informed Counselling, we work at your pace. We focus on “titration”—processing small pieces of the experience at a time—to ensure you stay within your window of tolerance. The goal is to heal the nervous system response without flooding you with distressing memories. Intriguingly, profound healing and freedom can often be achieved by addressing just the pivotal aspects of traumatic experiences, rather than revisiting every detail.

Yes. Trauma often shows up most clearly in our closest relationships. I offer specialised sessions for couples where trauma is impacting their connection. We work on creating relational safety, helping both partners understand how trauma triggers affect their relationship dynamic and how to support one another’s healing.