Tess Counselling

Welcome To A

Transformative Way Of Experiencing Relationship Therapy

Taking the first step into counselling can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. From the moment we connect, my aim is to make you feel at ease, because that’s where the therapeutic magic happens best.

Tess Counselling

Getting To Know You

Before We Even Begin.

Before we even meet, I’ll already have a sense of who you are, what’s happening in your life, and the dynamics at play from your Intake Form. My ability to intuitively understand people and their relationships is something I’ve honed over a lifetime of experience. This allows us to dive straight into meaningful work during our very first session.

Tess Counselling

A Tailored

Approach to Your Needs.

Most importantly, you’ll be seen as a person, not “the problem”. Whether you’re navigating Adult ADHD, AuDHD, past trauma, or everyday relationship struggles, I’ll tailor our time together to meet your unique needs.

Tess Counselling

Evidence-Based Insights for

Meaningful Change.

In our first session, I’ll introduce evidence-based psychological insights, such as Dr Stephen Porges’ Polyvagal Theory, which forms the foundation of my trauma-informed approach. This framework will help you understand the “why” behind your experiences and the techniques we’ll use, creating a safe and informed space for rapid, meaningful change.

Tess Counselling

Tapping into Relationships –

eft²

My Tapping into Relationships – eft² approach is designed to help you feel emotionally safe, calm, and connected, so you can start making real progress from the very beginning.

What You Can Expect as

We Progress Together

Our sessions will focus on:

  • Understanding the complexities of your relationship dynamic in a compassionate, non-judgmental environment where you feel truly heard.
  • Healing past trauma and breaking free from negative patterns, using practical tools and strategies tailored to your unique needs.
  • Improving communication and fostering deeper emotional connections, without blame, shame, or guilt.
  • Building stronger, healthier relationships by shifting unhelpful patterns and creating meaningful change, whether you’re attending individually or as a couple.

Every step of the journey is thoughtfully designed to help you create healthier, happier relationships.

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Eliza
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I cannot speak highly enough of Tess- her warmth, care and compassion, her intelligence and knowledge that she brings to every session are truly incredible. She draws on a wealth of experience and deep understanding. Tess has guided me through some very challenging times in my life, always with kindness, a non-judgemental attitude, curiosity and showing me how to act with compassion and love towards myself. I am very grateful for the journey that we have been on together and the deep work that we continue to do collaboratively. It has made such a difference to my life, to my interpersonal relationships and my relationship with myself. Her great sense of humour and reflections are a wonderful antidote. Thank you so much Tess!
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Harriet Gerbert
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My partner and I began seeing Tess for 'preventative' therapy when we started dating 2 years ago, and she has helped us to build an incredible foundation for our life together. Tess is compassionate and insightful, and we come out of every session with new insights that help us understand each other, and ourselves, better - even when we think we've analysed the problem from every angle, Tess surprises us with an insight that unlocks repair and healing. Tess has also taught us the power of tapping for self-regulation, and this has helped us de-escalate many situations before they escalate. Thank you so much Tess for being with us through our issues big and small!
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Kelsey Smith
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A Wonderful experience- Looking forward to more Sessions I’ve had two sessions with Tess so far, and I’m genuinely excited to see where this journey takes me. My daughter recommended Tess after experiencing many sessions with her, and I can see why she speaks so highly of her. Tess has a reputation for being incredibly kind and effective, and she truly lives up to it. From the very beginning, Tess made me feel comfortable and heard. She has a unique ability to connect and get to the heart of what’s important to me, which felt almost intuitive. It’s like she has a sixth sense for understanding how I feel and what I need. Her approach is a beautiful balance of compassion, expertise and experience kind, she’s non-judgmental in a way that allows me to be completely open without fear of criticism. Her knowledge is vast, and it’s clear that she has a wealth of experience to draw from. But what stands out most is her ability to tailor her techniques to fit my personal situation. I feel like I’m in very capable hands, and I can already sense the positive shifts after just a couple of sessions. I’m looking forward to continuing my work with Tess and seeing where the process leads. If you’re looking for someone who combines warmth with expertise, Tess is definitely someone you should consider.
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Genevieve Smith
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I’m deeply grateful for the support and healing Tess has facilitated in me. Through our work together, I’ve experienced profound growth in both my interpersonal relationships and the relationship I have with myself. My emotional regulation and communication with loved ones have improved significantly, and I feel more grounded and connected than ever. Tess has a remarkable ability to guide me to the deeper issues beneath the surface while ensuring I never feel too raw or exposed in the process. Her approach is both gentle and effective, creating a space that feels safe, compassionate, and transformative. I’ve recommended Tess to friends and family who have also experienced meaningful healing under her guidance. I can’t recommend her highly enough.
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Sarah Wells
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Tess helped me heal and cope after being in an abusive marriage. I highly recommend her. She was understanding and guided me with achievable coping strategies that greatly improved mental health and helped balance my nervous system.
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Nicolas Derbyshire
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Wow, where to start! I feel like I owe Tess so much; not only has she helped me see and deal with the toxicity that had surrounded me for so long, she has also helped me understand and embrace my true self. Tess’s gentle guidance, wisdom and empathy are a gift for anyone that needs help navigating relationships that don’t feel right. I can’t express how much Tess has helped me and can only recommend that you consider her for your counselling!
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Kirsty Angus
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Tess clearly identified issues within my relationship immediately and more accurately than any other therapist had done before. She always works with kindness and offers a wholistic follow up and care.

Leave the

Pain and Confusion in the Past

You’ve already shown courage by considering counselling. Let’s take the next step together and start creating the change you’re looking for.

 

Step Into Your Future.

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