"Love Shouldn't Hurt" written in black on a woman's back.

But he never hit me

Please don’t ever minimise all the horrors of emotional, psychological, sexual and financial abuse by...

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How Trauma Affects Relationships

How Trauma Affects Relationships: Signs and Strategies to Cope

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Childhood Emotional Neglect – PART 2

This is PART 2 of Childhood Emotional Neglect – What has caused those symptoms or...

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What is Somatic Therapy and How It Can Transform Relationships

Navigating the complexities of relationships can be challenging, especially when past traumas or attachment wounds...

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When being RIGHT, can be so wrong!

We love to be RIGHT! Don’t we? But so often, trying so hard to be...

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Beware the traits that make you more attractive to an abuser!

Ever wondered why it is you keep ending up in relationships that hurt you, rather...

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Tapping into Relationships – eft2

What’s so wonderful about this relationship therapy protocol? It works very quickly … that means...

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Childhood Emotional Neglect – PART 3

This is PART 3 of Childhood Emotional Neglect – How does it impact adult relationships?...

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How to recognise emotionally abusive behaviour … PART A.

… both the charming and the ugly.  Emotional abuse most often occurs covertly and usually...

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Childhood Emotional Neglect – PART 1

This is PART 1 of Childhood Emotional Neglect – What are the symptoms – the...

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Desperate to be loved?

There are so many other titles, that would sit just as comfortably with this blog...

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The one mistake we all inevitably make in relationships.

We turn our feelings into facts! This is the biggest mistake that we make in our...

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