It takes courage to face what you struggle with. Anyone who seeks counselling shows they are brave, not broken.

It takes Courage …

Every time we choose COURAGE, we make everyone around us a little better and the...

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Does Your Partner Think You Have ADHD?

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Thinking of Counselling?

How do you choose a counsellor? For that matter, what is counselling? What happens in...

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How to recognise emotionally abusive behaviour … PART A.

… both the charming and the ugly.  Emotional abuse most often occurs covertly and usually...

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Choose love, not fear.

If I had to break my entire counselling philosophy and practice down into just 2...

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Childhood Emotional Neglect – PART 1

This is PART 1 of Childhood Emotional Neglect – What are the symptoms – the...

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How to tame your ‘Inner Critic’ so it won’t sabotage relationships …

Got an ‘Inner Critic’ that you would like to silence for life?  They’re relentless aren’t...

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Desperate to be loved?

There are so many other titles, that would sit just as comfortably with this blog...

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The one mistake we all inevitably make in relationships.

We turn our feelings into facts! This is the biggest mistake that we make in our...

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Codependency - where love is not reciprocal but about giving too much at the expense of one's own well being.

Am I Codependent – or Just a Kind, Caring Partner?

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What is Trauma-Informed Relationship Therapy?

Relationships are the cornerstone of our emotional well-being, yet they can also be the source...

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Adult ADHD - creates enormous hurt and confusion in relationships

Adult ADHD: The Hidden Strain on Relationships

Living with Adult ADHD can feel like a constant tug-of-war between a person’s best intentions...

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